November 5, 2015




Last night around 7:30 pm, my daddy went home to be with the Lord.  He had been diagnosed with multiple myeloma (bone marrow cancer) in June, just 5 short months ago. He fought so hard to stay with us; he wanted to be there for his family, but God had other plans. At the time of his death, he was surrounded by his family and some dear friends, and as he took his last breath, the song "It Is Well" came on and we all sang that beautiful hymn together through our tears. We are grieving for us, but we are so happy for him because he is rejoicing in heaven with Jesus.  He suffered so much these past 5 months and it was so hard to see him that way. It is wonderful to know that he has no more pain or sorrow; he is whole and healthy. Dad was a Godly man full of integrity and he touched so many lives. He was such a wonderful father, husband, and friend, and we will miss him so much, but what a comfort it is to know that it is well with his soul and we will see him again one day.  God is so faithful and He will never leave us or forsake us, what a wonderful hope we have.

I am going to share a letter I wrote my dad a few years ago for Fathers Day.

Dear Dad,


 Words can't express how much I love you, respect you, and look up to you.  Growing up, I probably didn't appreciate you like I should have, but you are the best dad a girl could ever ask for.  You were always there for us, helping with math homework, and taking me on tennis and donut dates.  You and mom showed me what a good marriage should be, and without your model, I would probably be having a harder time in my own marriage.  Most importantly, you modeled the fruits of the spirit to me. You are patient, loving, kind, and slow to anger.  You love the Lord with all your heart and it shows.  And you are smart!  I never realized how smart and wise you were until the past few years.  Thank you for all your hard work raising us and providing for us.  I am so glad to call you my dad! 

Love you and happy father's day,
Kari

Daddy, I will miss you so much. I wish with all my heart that you had escaped that suffering, no one should have to go through that much pain. We prayed so much and it hurt my heart, but you were so strong and so brave and I am so proud of you.  I will treasure my memories and pictures of you for the rest of my life, and I am looking forward to the day I can give you a big hug in heaven.  What a joyous day that will be. I know that God is working his plan and He is good.  The Lord gives and takes away, blessed be the name of the Lord. Don't worry about us, we will all be fine. Give my baby and my Jesus a hug for me and I'll see you later.  I love you so much!



1 comment:

  1. I am crying...this was beautiful!!! Praying for you sweet friend!

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